The Internet opens many doors for us to others, thanks in particular to social media. But wouldn’t this new mode of communication has negative impacts on the life of a couple?
Whether by invitation, reserved for professionals, or open to all, social media and blogs are becoming more and more important in our daily life. With millions of followers, they are establishing themselves as tools of communication and change. Of course, these social media offer advantages for those who subscribe and some disadvantages, especially in a romantic relationship. Indeed, whether it is jealousy, monitoring the other’s account, arguments, or real or virtual infidelities, the impact of social media on the lives of couples is proven.
The main issue of social media in our love life is that it represents the climate that reigns within our couple. If neither partner is jealous, if the relationship is peaceful, and trust is a keyword in how we view life together, then social media will not be a problem at all. As a general rule, for healthy couples who have already had a little experience, all this may even seem relatively futile.
On the other hand, for recent couples, mainly for jealous people, Facebook, Twitter, and company are the ideal way to monitor the smallest actions of your lover (s). The problem is that you can very quickly become paranoid. A slightly too lovely comment on the status of a contact a little too sexy, and we can already imagine the worst.
Even though all of these little virtual actions have no real-life consequences, we are often tempted to overemphasize them. Yet the real danger is not in what is visible but in what is not. Indeed, if your partner has an ambiguous relationship with a virtual friend, he/she will be smart enough not to leave messages visible to all (at least, in theory).
Another dilemma for couples: updating their love status. Delicate not to offend your spouse by refusing to show your love for him. And in the other direction, he is often criticized for not formalizing the relationship. Real little “virtual marriage,” this public love status has become problematic for recent couples. Better to talk about it beforehand, quite simply, and ask the real questions: what is this feature for? What does it bring us?
Some couples have found the solution to negate the problems of jealousy and supervision by opening a joint account. Everyday social life means accepting to become one in a certain way. But is it very healthy? Up to you. It all depends on how you feel.
However, for singles, social media can be an excellent way to get to know each other in a relaxed manner. A tweet here, a message there, and in no time, we get to know each other. Why forbid this facility, after all? The trick is, therefore, to use common sense. For recent couples, we might as well remain cautious and, for everyone, favor real communication over virtual communication. And you can contact our team for your social media marketing in Pakistan.
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